Dag Lefttout I was reading your posts and I swear I had to reread them because they are so similar to my situations! I too am a little older than most people that pledge and I was wondering about things of that nature myself. I have been given great advice so far from so many people and I will share it with you. As far as my age I was at once worried about being older than the other girls that may pledge or even older than those that would be Pledging me! Many many people have said that it would not be a big issue, I am totally okay with it now. As far as parties I have been to some but I am def not a every weekend partier and its like someone said earlier unless someone is doing something off the wall to bring attention to themselves, the girls in the sorority would most likely not notice if you were at their parties or not. They really do notice if you have participated in their comm serv projects and things of that nature. I KNOW THAT THIS IS THE WRONG FORUM BUT......... as far as your baby goes its really all about time management. If you think that you can handle all three then I say go for it (I know I am)! I wish you much success in your quest!
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