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Old 02-13-2010, 09:36 AM
ASUADPi ASUADPi is offline
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Originally Posted by monogrammedadpi View Post
]I am wondering what would happen if I transfered schools to another school that has my chapter and decided it was just not for me. If I chose not to affiliate at my new school would I be dropped completely from my sorority?
I didn't affiliate.

I was initiated at U of A and transferred to ASU. I didn't affiliate. I was put at alum status.

You are a sister for life sweetie. If you don't want to join the chapter at your new school because it isn't for you, then it isn't for you. You've been initiated and unless you do something that could have them take your memberhsip away (which not affiliating isn't a reason), then you will still be a member. I'm kind of living proof of that!

But... yes there is a but. I wish I had affiliated. I wish I could have had that collegiate experience. Yes, I love being an alum, but it is hard living in Phx and most of the alums are from Gamma Rho. I sometimes feel a bit left out because I didn't affiliate with Gamma Rho.

I would truly encourage you to "try out" (for lack of better words) the new chapter you want to affiliate too. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out. You'll always be our sister.

Feel free to PM me if you have any other questions.
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