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Do not panic if it is Week 1 of your NM program and you aren't feeling like instant BFFs with all of your new sisters.
Feeling at home takes time. For example: you and your best friend from home were likely not best friends the day you met. Same is true for a sorority. Building relationships takes time.
Also, building relationships takes EFFORT on your part. Yes, older members will make some effort to hang out with you, but it's a two-way street. It's hard to make friends if you just sit back and expect older members to make all of the effort. Hang out at the house, eat lunch/dinner there, etc. Small things like that go a long way in developing friendships with other girls.
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"Remember that apathy has no place in our Sorority." - Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 02-10-2010 at 03:07 PM.
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