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My guess is that Dad of Pledge is an alum and promised beaucoup bucks if the son was bid. Or the fraternity is assuming that would happen. Not fair to dad, son, or fraternity.
Instead of being passive aggressive with stupid things like nicknames, try being MEN, speak to this pledge and ask him if he's really happy so far, or tell him it's not a good fit and ask him to resign. Trust me, if my scenario is right, you don't want to be around when dad figures it out.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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