I'll side with you on the fact that getting a job isnt necessarily always a choice. I had to work 4 jobs one year to make ends meet and my involvment in my chapter dropped a lot. The chapter could have part of me or none of me that year. Thats life.
However your story doesnt seem to add up completely.
The red flag for me is that a majority of your "brothers" deleted you from Facebook.
There are plenty of people in my Facebook profile who I've friended that I really dont care for, but I complied just to be polite. Having a friend on facebook doesnt really require any effort...and from my experience, people only delete others for 3 primary reasons.
1) You post incessantly and they find you annoying
2) They are passive agressive and want you to know that you're no longer on good terms
3) They really f*cking dont like you and want nothing to do for you
I could see if maybe a brother or two unfriended you...but almost all of the chapter did? And you're crying innocence? Somethings not being said.
So with the other posters, I have a hard time believing that you're tellings us even 70% of the story.
Either way, it sounds like you have other stuff to settle first and you already belong to a brotherhood so life isnt so bad huh?
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