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Old 02-05-2010, 03:07 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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If you're going out to dinner, it needs to be a small group, not the whole chapter. Preferably 2-3 women with someone in the mix whom the PNM is already friends with (hence getting your sisters to make friends with people first, then invite them to do things).

Another piece of advice: Relax. I don't know if this is the case for you guys or not, but sometimes, girls can get so caught up in "selling the sorority" to the PNMs from Day 1that it creeps them out. Example: When at events or hanging out with PNMs, sisters talk about "XYZ events, philanthropy, etc" constantly instead of getting to know the women.

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