[AnotherKD]

I have been reading this thread and want to add one thing that came from my experience. When I was a sister going through my first spring recruitment, there was a girl that was rushing with a friend of hers. I don't really know why, but we did NOT click at all. She was on my hall freshman year, and for some reason we just didn't like each other. She didn't even want to rush our house because I was a member. She only came to our events because her friend basically dragged her there.

As you can guess, she pledged us. Half a semester later, she and I chose each other as our big/little. She became one of my very best friends and we were in each others' weddings.

I know that the things that you've listed seem to add up to a lot in your mind, but they don't seem to be big things to me. Everyone has a "What if?" that they sometimes think about. You've gotta take what you've got and run with it sometimes- you'll come to find that you will get out of it what you put into it. If you've always wanted to be greek and now you've been accepted into an organization, then make it what you want. Want to get involved with more houses? Run for office or for Panhel. Participate your ass off in things like Greek Week. Make your greek world and your college world what you want. It goes by SO fast.