Schools with deferred recruitment will often have COR in the fall for upperclassmen, and COR right after formal for both upperclassmen and freshmen.
I can understand why you may not want to go to that group's events. However, since you only spent time with one person for the bulk of formal- it may be worth a shot to see how the other women in the chapter are.
Is there a reason you aren't considering any other groups? That's how it sounds, anyway... definitely give the others a shot. Some shine during formal, others shine during informal. You don't know until you try.
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