[Psi U MC Vito]

Originally Posted by greek22

I didn't want to join a fraternity, in where they're not close they just get together and party 24/7. But then again if I do party I am a guy and a would like for their to be girls there. Sorry most guys like having girls at parties.

Hmm, not quite sure how to take this.

Let me try to explain it to you this way. You are a Brother from the day you are initiated to the day you die. I know brothers who have been best friends with each other for over 50 years, yet wouldn't have even met if not for the fraternity. That is what being in a fraternity should be about, the unending bonds. Look, as you get older you are going to get to a point where you are no longer interested in partying. You will also if you are fortunate find a woman you will marry and spend the rest of your life with. Partying and girls might be important now, but not for the rest of your life. Your Brothers on the other hand will. It should be all about the connections you feel, not who has the best parties or hangs out with the prettiest girls.