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Old 01-31-2010, 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted by msujenn View Post
Ever since I can imagine, I have wanted to join a sorority and recruitment starts tomorrow at my school and I cannot tell you how excited I am. But I am wondering one thing, do you really find lifelong friends and your best friend in the sorority or do you just find typical friends that you could meet in class. Either way I am joining one if a bid is extended to me but I am just wondering.

THANKS!
You get out of it what you put into it. If you only do the minimum that's required of you and spend the least amount of time you can with your sisters, you probably won't make lifelong friends.

However, realize that IT TAKES TIME. The past few years have seen a rash of recently pledged members on here who are upset that "I don't connect with anyone in my sorority!! I want to drop out!!" The problem is they're writing these posts after two weeks. This isn't the Real World where people are calling each other "best friends" after being in the house for 2 days. It can take you up to a year to truly find your niche.
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