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Old 01-27-2010, 07:45 PM
APhiAnna APhiAnna is offline
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Oh man, I have to admit that if a PNM was spouting off facts to me about my own sorority I would be majorly creeped out.

I agree if you have a previous connection to the philanthropy then it is OK to mention, but don't overdo it. Pretty much anything else I would be really turned off by...founders, creeds/symphonies/mission statements, history, etc.

It's not the knowledge in and of itself, but more the fact that in NPC recruitment (unlike NPHC, for example) research on a sorority is not required at all. So the fact that somebody "did their research" would come off as the PNM trying to manipulate the chapter to giving them a bid.

In theory I guess it SHOULD be commendable to the PNM for doing the research and complimentary to the chapter that the PNMs care so much. However in practice, since 99.99% of the PNMs are not talking about those details, it will come off stalkerish and manipulative to at least enough members that it may hurt your chances.
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