[SydneyK]

I know I'll regret asking this, but it's in my nature to question everything, so I can't help it.

Why share this story now? And why are you sharing it with us?

I'm having a hard time believing that you're just wanting to "compliment" Greek women, or that you're hoping to prevent PNMs from making mistakes similar to yours. All potential good intentions are overshadowed by negative remarks about certain groups on your campus, or by asking us questions about new members not being punished appropriately, etc... It really does seem like you have a hidden agenda, and until you can convince us otherwise, I have a feeling you'll continue to be treated like a troll. (And even if you give a good answer, some of us will still probably think you're lying just to save face.) The whole thing is just... off.