[imsohappythatiama]

Don't do it. If this guy is sketchy, and it sounds like he is, don't entangle yourself in this issue any longer. You are already in deeper than you want to be, sounds like. So DON'T dig yourself in any deeper.

If XYZ is concerned about "Mark" enough to "call you as a witness," so to speak, then they already know that he is a bad seed....and they don't need any "evidence" to kick him out....they can just pull his pin for misconduct, or possibly for having initiated at another IFC organization.

Do not be sucked in by the promise of "anonymity" in your statement... this sort of thing will get back to "Mark" eventually, and for your personal safety, I would not recommend giving him a reason to come around your way any longer.

I admire your concern for XYZ's reputation, but as the past victim of a stalker who intended to do me harm, I beg you to look out for your own health in this situation.

Tell XYZ that you are sorry you can't make any kind of statement for them; that their E-Board will have to make a decision based upon the facts they have gathered, Mark's past history, and their own gut feelings about the matter.

THIS IS NOT YOUR BATTLE TO FIGHT....and there is no sense risking your health to fight someone else's battle.

I would also like to say that if you or any of your sisters are fearful of this "Mark" person, you need to report any activity that even sniffs of stalking to your local and school police. And you need to keep a journal of any and all contact that you may have with Mark--especially any contact that makes you feel threatened or in any way uncomfortable.

This guy may not be a stalker, he may not be dangerous. He may be just a kind of weird, overly intense kid with a penchant for confrontation. But you and your sisters need to play it safe...assume the worst, hope for the best, and plan for them both.

I wish you luck!!!