[peppermint23]

Our culture definitely plays up the ditzy-sorority-girl stereotype. Of course, we all know that for the most part it isn't true, and sororities are much more than that.

I would suggest talking to your mom when you're both at ease, like during a walk on a nice day. Showing her a sorority website is a great start, as the websites give a more realistic picture of what sororities do and what their purpose is than what we see in movies and on TV. Be honest. Let her know how you feel (even if you have reservations) and what you are looking for. Focus on the positives and she will too.

I know plenty of girls that are far from girly-girls in sororities. That's what makes them fun, they all have such different people. My Grand-Big sister, for example, hates wearing make-up and strong dislikes glitter! But we love her because she's a great girl. Ideally, that is how a sorority should be.

Though you don't HAVE to tell your mom, it sounds like you want to and you want her to understand your decision. I say go for it. Assume she will support you and approach her with confidence.