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you may be a member of a smaller new member class(pledge class) because the chapter can't take as many members, but your pledgeship will be the same-you will learn the same things, get a big sister, etc., just like the new members from formal recruitment do.
why on earth would an informal new member be looked down on? they would not have offered "you" a bid if they had not wanted you as a sister. they will most likely be delighted to have "you" as a new member.
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Last edited by FSUZeta; 01-13-2010 at 03:22 PM.
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