[love1god]

Men in general treat women how they present themselves to be treated. I think men well try you and LBs as well to see your worth, are you a groupie to passed and shared, or someone to take more seriously? Just because a guy tells you they share doesn't mean you should take it as an appropriate invite even if it is tradition (or not).

I personally haven't incountered this. Maybe its wrong, but although I have much respect for greek men I'm more cautious around them. I wouldn't date one just to do it like a fling, it would have to be some real feelings. I'm still in college and wouldn't want my relationship with one to compromise me in other situations. I don't think you should double dip into an organzation by having a relationship or fling with more than one... I just think thats awkward. But that rule for me applies not only to greeks, but athletes, and just groups of friends in general. I feel like if I date one, and things go south and stitch to one of their LBs its not a good look.

lol "Danger she smashed the homies" comes to mind

But I'm just a sisterfriend in college and thats my perspective.