I sooo agree with the others. Sounds like you are better off without him. I also agree with Maria..especially if some of the accounts are in your names together....or who gets stick with all the bills...Start documenting stuff now to protect your credit rating.
When we meet at UA, I'll buy you a marg or beer or whatever (assuming you're of legal age, lol.)
LieP,
Lynn
Ya got my email..use it!