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Originally Posted by PinkSugar
Hello all! Here is my story, in September I made the mistake of visiting just one house out of 4 for informal recruitment and did not get a bid. I have a friend who knows some girls of the house and when I was brought up, the fact that I am shy played a big role in not getting a bid. I have signed up for formal recruitment where I am required to visit all 4 houses and of course I will be some what embarassed to re visit the house that turned me down. So, I need tips on how to hold a great conversation and to not be nervous when re-visiting the first house. Thanks for reading! 
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The fact that you only went to one house most likely played a far bigger role in your not getting a bid. To be blunt, you should be more embarrassed about visiting the houses you didn't give a chance than the one that didn't bid you. If anyone is going to feel kind of weird, it's the sisters, not you.
Also: don't listen to what a "friend of a sister" says. She was not in the room with the sorority when they discussed you and voted on you. Don't get hung up on the "I'm shy" thing when there's a possibility this was just something the sister pulled out of her rear end to get your mutual friend to leave her alone about it.