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One of my exes was very, very insecure and it made me want to scream. He would never leave me alone until I was with him, which was most of the time I wasn't in class because he was afraid I would disappear if he couldn't actually see me (I guess). I never had any time to myself; if I tricked him into letting me by saying I was sick or something, the phone rang off the hook. Seriously, every 10 or 15 minutes. It was very restricting, and I broke up with him because I felt like he was holding me back.
So, since then I've learned that it's very important to be secure with oneself, especially if you expect not to get on your significant other's nerves, much less stay with him or her. Everyone has their moments, but insecurity like that is *really* annoying.
And brownsugakdphi, I'm with you on #4--the same thing happened to me (with a different guy), and just thinking about it still makes me want to run him over if I ever see his sleazy arse again.
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