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I guess I know I'm not the only one who feels this way, but I'm the only one who has tried to do anything about it by voicing my opinion and all it got me was a semester of taking crap from the party guys with no one supporting me.
Dr. Phil: I guess I'm not phrasing it clearly, I didn't join purely for social reasons, I believe in the ideals of my fraternity. Unfortunately most of the brothers seem to see the fraternity as nothing more than an avenue to women and parties.
ree-Xi: Thanks for the alumni suggestion, I've been thinking of that for a while and there have been brothers who just kind of checked out in the past.
I think part of the problem is that my fraternity is at one of the most notorious party schools in the nation so I probably should have suspected that most of the fraternities would be "frats." The thing is, I was sure that this was the house for me. When I joined it was small and fighting for a reputation among the larger fraternities. I think the big problem is that a lot of party guys saw that the house was going to grow and figured they could get into this house easier than the big party houses and just wait until it got bigger. Unfortunately those guys are in control now.
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