Lol....all of the lists above would be exactly how my ex would describe me.
I didn't forget her birthday, but we were had broken up a few months earlier and she got really made when I didn't make a special effort to give her a gift.(I did give her a call and send best wishes).
I wouldn't say that my brothers knew every detail, but she got angry when I let a few guys know that we were 'seperated' for a bit. I didn't see the big deal...was I supposed to lie about it when they asked why she wasn't around....?
One time she gave me an ultimatum. So I gave her a list of my priorites, and she was distincly on the bottom only b/c she did that. We are in college to better
ourselves.
Anniversities, and holidays just aren't important to me. I never really cared if I got a gift on christmas or something for my birthday. My ex wanted to exchange gitfs for St. Patricks Day!! Just total opposites.....
Just like in sororites, sometimes things come up at the last minute. Maybe something happened to a brother and I had to take his place in a function. When it was over, I would go over to her house-but she was never interested in my explaination. It was always 'Your putting a bunch of
boys over me, your girlfriend!'....
What I learned...
1. When a girl startes feeling insecure in a relationship, they get even more clingy....which only serves to alienate the guy even more. (at least that is how it is for me).
2.Watch what you say. She will bring something you said five months ago up and use it against you, even if it was an off hand comment that didn't mean anything.
3.Just agree then go and do what you want to do anyway.
