The conflict is basically one of loyalty. In doing research I learned that when a candidate is interested in a certain sorority, then they should only attend that sorority's events. I do not want to give the impression that I am interested in pledging Zeta Phi Beta by participating in Phi Beta Sigma's pageant.... I don't know how other organizations view these circumstances, but I know of BGLOs especially being really particular about certain things, and I would not like to jeopardize my chances in membership intake in any way.
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