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I guess I came up with some more.... It's funny how are exes did similar things... I would be interested to see what guys put on about their exgirlfriends....
4) (I'm continuing my list) I was a virgin until this guy.... It happened, and he knew how sensitive I was about the issue... It was something I had hoped to keep til marriage... I found out a couple days ago that his whole fraternity knew and had details about our sexual life... I learned that I have to have a clearer picture of the guy that I have intimate relations with, I need to know I can trust someone.
5) He was notorious for forgetting our anniversaries and on our one year anniversary I found out he went to a strip club... Now I don't make a big deal about strip clubs and stuff but to do it on our one year... damn! It taught me that I need to find someone who puts value in the things I find important, if he doesn't find them important then it's a reflection on how much he finds me important...
6) He was "busy" doing things for his career, something I had to understand. When I would complain about not seeing him for weeks he would say that when he had anytime I was the only one he spent it with... One night I went out with my girls cause I was mad at him, who did I find at the bars with this brothers?! - him.... I learned, when a guy can't make time for you, you don't make time for him...
that's about it for now... i'll see if I can come up with more.... damn, I think i'm making him sound really really bad... he did have some good points... but that's another post!
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