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That's a tough one, Carnation. I would approach it indirectly, and say something like, "You know, I've been hearing the funniest thing! -- a number of people are under the impression that you're a DEF" (at which point, she'll probably deny it.) Then you could add, "I would hate for a PNM to approach you thinking that she can count on you for a rec. That might ruin her rush." At least it would give her something to think about.
Ultimately, you're not responsible for her behavior. But you can be honest with others if they ask: "As far as I know, she never joined DEF at State U."
It's truly an unfortunate situation.
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