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Personally if a person has been hurt in previous relationships and they want to carry that baggage with them through life than that's on them. I don't think its my or anyone else's responsiblity to get a man to trust me or see that i'm not like anyone else. If he can't see me for me and seperate me from the other women he's dealt with in the past, than oh well his loss. Everyone is an individual and while I don't recommend walking around with your heart on your sleeve, I would recommend that you take your time to know someone and build a friendship with them before you determine whether you can go further with them. The problem with folks is that they are always walking around looking for MR and Mrs Right and looking for relationships. Whatever happened to taking your time and being friends. For you guys who are or have been hurt, get over it, and don't go around making all women pay for your bad judgement. Until you do get over it fully, don't put yourself out there on the market. Ladies when a man says he's not looking for a relationship, believe him! Don't try and convince him otherwise cause you'll soon end up with baggage of your own.
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