I didn't mean to imply that your son was being a slacker or anything. I was pointing out the obvious - college-bound students have to work hard - getting good grades, doing well in honors and AP classes, impressing teachers who will write good recommendations, etc. Your son needs to work hard now so that he will have his pick of colleges 3 years from now.
The available technology will continue to change from year to year. The Xbox may have gone the way of the LP by 2014.
You and your son will evaluate options in three years' time - and internet connectivity will be one of many factors.