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Don't accept a bid and then turn it down when you get another one - that's rude and tacky.
Tell the group that you already got a bid from that you're very interested, but you want to go through rush before you commit to an organization. Go to rush events for both fraternities and then make a decision based on your rush experience.
Also, I had a lot of people tell me they could see me in XYZ because I dressed like them (really people?). I would never fit in with that fraternity, so make a decision for yourself and don't listen to what other people say.
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"Delta Chi is not a weekend or once-a-year affair but a lifelong opportunity and privilege"
- Albert Sullard Barnes
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