I really hate to see something like this happen.
It burns me up to see that something this big and life-changing can be caused by "miscommunication" on the part of those who are elected to take care of all of the chapters and make sure that we thrive and aren't left in the dust. Yes, there are lots of chapters to take care of, but why let something like this slip through the cracks? Especially with the host chapter for Convention!! Did they not think that their actions might cast a negative light on the whole Convention in Arizona idea if they go shut down the chapter six months before it's scheduled to go on?
I am so sorry that this happened to your chapter and I wish you all the best.
*BTW, Amy Molinari is an alum from my chapter, Beta Xi in Memphis*