Hey hey hey, play nice. I like my threads to NOT turn into hostile trainwrecks, please and thank you.
The last guy I dated would ask at the end of EVERY date and EVERY phone call, "So where is this going?" This started about 5 days after we met and I would
every time. I never really answered him because I had no clue what he was trying to ask me, so he repeatedly accused me of being afraid of intimacy.
(BTW, on our 3rd date, I flipped the question on him and that helped me get what he was trying to say.)