can anybody help?,,,,,,i wanna join a fraternity but im not 100% sure what there really like...some ppl are saying theres no partys:S...(which disapoints me alotttt)...i know the brotheres are there to help eachother which i want but i still want to know if the partys are as good and ppl say they are.....anybody with info or advice about joining and what its like please message me