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Originally Posted by ree-Xi
None of this post makes any sense.
You are hanging out with a fraternity that you say is "nothing great". If you think so lowly of them, why are you hanging out there? You're bashing a group with whom you plan to rush.
From your post, your primary goal is to get a higher social standing on campus and presumably to make you more appealing to women. I can assure you that this type of personal agenda is usually pretty transparent, and very off-putting. Sure, we join these organizations for many reasons, but going into it with the attitude of "what can they do for me?" is the wrong approach.
As for blaming your lack of social success on the school's "less-than-elite" status, that's a lame excuse. Life is what you make of it.
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lol, that was just a typo. i meant "nothing but great." my bad. i definitely wouldnt join and pay all those dues to anything that wasnt great.
ordinarily i dont struggle socially, or atleast i didnt before. but im in a new environment filled with people that im just not used to being around. i dont wanna go into too much detail about it, but maybe i came across wrong when i said it "wasn't elite enough." i was just trying to point out that its not a big sec school or something like i know a lot of you are probably at.