[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by SugarANDSpice

I've been seeing this gentleman for 8 months and it has been wonderful.
he hired 2 prostitutes for a 3some.

Damn!

8 months isn't long, so yeah it's "wonderful" right now, but it's about feeling the same way about the relationship LONG after the newness has worn off. The fact that you have questions tells me you're not happy. He won't be happy if you're not happy. To me, a relationship is not about finding someone to make me happy, it's more about learning to make her happy. It's not about "getting" as much as it is about "giving". You have to make each other happy. IMO.

Also, how you see yourself determines who you will be with long term and happy with. If you have low-self esteem and don't have a positive and healthy regard for yourself, you will settle for anyone who shows any interest in you.

Long story short, you might want to bounce, roll, and skate the hell on out of this one.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BBCfoO2_U98