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If every member takes an exam to be initiated, then its NOT hazing, even under Kappa's definition, because it would be required at some point, whether you were an active or a new member.
to each its own, i suppose. it sounds like more weight is given whether a NM shows up to their NM events/meetings than the exam. kinda like a class that gives more weight to class discussions and homework than the midterm and final.
to OP - feel better, through all of this.
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Do you know people? Have you interacted with them? Because this is pretty standard no-brainer stuff. -33girl
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