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Hey everyone,
Thanks for your replies. Since the next rush is going to be in winter quarter, I'll be checking out other fraternities. I guess you were right, I wasn't being honest to myself. I wanted to fit into a fraternity that didn't think I fit in, but that's because I really liked their values and their atmosphere. Unfortunately, I didn't put my real personality forward so it sucks not getting into the chapter. (And my school is socially dead so it's a bit of a challenge to find stuff to do but I put in enough effort. Nope, we don't even have a greek row).
And I talked to that guy about that "go down on your mom" question and he said the reason he asked it is that he was asked it when he rushed, and the answer he was looking for was along the lines of "why the hell would I answer that question, I don't even know you."
I'll find a house that I'll fit into, but since my school has an extremely weak greek system, we only have one week and a lot of the houses schedule rush events at the same time. So at most for next quarter, I can rush two fraternities.
I don't know if I'll be rushing the house that didn't give me a bid again. A couple of the guys keep telling me to come out again, but I don't want to dedicate another part of rush week to a house that I don't belong to.
We will see. Thanks guys for your honesty.
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