i'm going to use your own advice from the "long distnace relationships" thread
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And also, don't make promises that you can't keep; for instance, if you say you're coming to visit, then do it. Don't say you will and then call three hours after you were supposed to be there and say that "something suddenly came up," because even if you're telling the truth, it won't wash.
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obviously we know youre telling the truth - and i'm sure your boyfriend does too - haha, but i'm sure he was looking so forward to having to come visit this weekend, and so were you. i would go if i were you. just polietly tell your cousins that you already had plans for the weekend and could not be canceled. maybe that will give them a clue that they need to inform you a little sooner of when they need you - then again, maybe not