Thanks you guys for the advise. Lionlove, thanks so much, you made me think alot about all that. I think i am going to try this out. He is a wonderful wonderful guy and i know if i didnt give it a try i would kick myself later while wondering the "what ifs". You guys helped me A LOT!! I knew i could count you ya'll!!
Ronnie, thats right, i totally forgot you guys are in a LD relationship. I just may take you up on that offer if RW and I take things further. You are the best!!!

AOE!!
Always-
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