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Actually, at my university (which has a lot of similarities with what the OP describes) its not uncommon for men to only attend events for one fraternity, though this is changing as our community grows.
BlueArrow, no one can guarantee that you will get a bid next time.
The best thing you can do is maintain the friendships you already have with fraternity men, and try to meet more. Get involved with other organizations and keep your grades up. I don't really know what you did during rush, but just be yourself and try to make a connection with the guys you talk to in the spring - that's really the best you can do.
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