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Originally Posted by AGDee
Maybe I'm too modern, but I would have been totally and completely offended had either of my husbands asked my father for permission. My father did not own me once I turned 18. I was my own person making my own decisions. My father should have NO SAY in who I choose to marry. The man controlled every aspect of my life as long as I lived in his home. As soon as I was out, no way, no how was he going to have any say in how I lived my life.
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I should clarify.
I didn't necessarily mean they should ask for permission. I do, however, think it is respectful to give the parents a bit of a heads up that you are going to propose. I'm sure it depends on the parents too.
Ok, end of hijack. Congratulations again!