Hi everyone, sorry for not posting sooner, but I have been so so so busy! I'm a very lucky girl because I was offered a bid to my first choice house and I am loving it more than I ever could have dreamed! The older sisters are no less amazing than they were during recruitment and I love my pledge class! We all clicked within the first few days and now I have no idea how I lived before them
I'm sorry but I will not be revealing my sorority or my school. This thread started out very negative and I would like it to not come up in a search or something. Especially since I think most people would know exactly who I am if they found it.
There's one more part to my story. A few days after rush the president of the chapter that dropped me called me and asked me to get lunch with her. Obviously she knew how upset I had been, especially because of my friend, and wanted to talk. She told me that she could not tell me why I had not been invited back, but that she and most of the chapter had no bad feelings towards me and she would like us to be friends. Of course, I told her that I would love that and I appreciated her contacting me.
And that concludes the story of my recruitment! Thank you to all of you for giving me a place to vent, encouragement, and great advice! Rush is tough and having a community of such smart, informed people was a great help to me.