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Originally Posted by Sunflowers

Well, no news is good news right?

I have not heard either way from XYZ, and the sister who had invited me to the events was not in class on Monday. I find it rude to go out of my way to ask whether or not they voted on me this Sunday, so I am patiently playing the waiting game. It is likely they have not voted on me, as this particular sister sometimes is forgetful, so I am trying not to worry too much about it. (Although, I do have to admit, it is kind of hard not to worry! The only downfall of informal rush that I can see is the fact you do not know when you will or will not be voted upon; with formal, at least there is a specific day that you know for sure whether or not you'll receive a bid. )

I appreciate all of the encouragement and the PMs I have received in support. I will admit, if I do not receive a bid, I will be disappointed, but at least it has been a wonderful, fun learning experience, and I met quite a few wonderful girls in the process. Now the nail-biting begins, haha.

Good luck. I was in your position when I went through informal. I attended events on a weekend and was told I'd hear from the sorority on Monday. I actually didn't end up hearing anything until Tuesday! So it made for a very long weekend.

So I wouldn't go out of my way to ask, things may take a day or so longer for whatever reason.

No news may mean good or bad news, just wait and see.