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Originally Posted by jjen
alright so I'm a freshman who didn't rush at Alabama. Well I realized I wanna be in a sorority, and called the greek office and said if there was going to be any COB that I would be interested. Every chapter at bama made quota so I figured this wouldn't happen.
Well, they called me about a week ago and told me AOII would be having an informal recruitment in the spring. but...they made quota....
so heres my dilemna, the AOIIs I know are sweet girls, fun, and I would have no problem hanging out with. just not sure if its the right sorority for me completely. Well I was thinking maybe it wouldn't hurt to atleast try. My question is if I'm not sure its the right sorority for me should I go through with it? or should I wait till fall? Also, if they give me a bid and I don't accept it, can I still rush in the fall?
heres the second part of my question. everyone has been telling me rushing in the fall as a sophomore is not bad and its worth doing. but...my fear is I will only be exposed to my pledge class, who would be almost all freshman. all the swaps are for freshman, and i would perfer to make friends in my own grade. so is it likely as a sophomore pledge I can become close to the sophomore actives?
thanks!
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I have relatives in AOII at UA. That being said I'm not biased when I say from my exposure to them they seem pretty nice, pretty fun, and pretty well rounded when it comes to the make up of their members. These are questions you should ask the Greek Life office to make SURE that you know the rules at Alabama. But generally speaking as long as you don't accept a bid you are eligible for the next recruitment in the fall. If you do accept the bid you'll be unable to accept a bid from another sorority for a year. Spend the rest of this semester getting as much hang out time with AOII's you know as possible (without sounding desperate and without hounding them) and you'll have a better idea of what you want to do in the spring. Also talk to sorority women you know on campus, preferably in different sororities, and ask their honest opinion on what it's like to rush as a sophomore. I don't see why you couldn't be friends with people your own age, and there might even be other sophomores in your potential pledge class, but you will have to spend a lot of time with a lot of freshmen. If you think that'll irritate you, it's something to think about seriously.
Also, keep in mind there's a possibility you won't get a bid from AOII and that you won't get a bid if you go through recruitment in the fall. That's the ugly truth. So don't spend so much time worrying about it now. Cross the bridges when you come to them.