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Originally Posted by 33girl
Dude, if this is your mindset, you need to give this pursuit of Greek life up. Seriously. Martyrdom is so not attractive.
If your Greek system is really and truly so closed-minded that you feel like you had to go buy completely new clothes (to the point that your friends were  when they saw you in the new duds) to hang out with its members, then honestly, I don't think it's a sytem that any of us on here would have wanted to be a part of. In the super insane big hair 80s, I occasionally went to the bar in a black turtleneck & jeans, straight hair, beatniked out. Because I could!! No one avoided me or didn't talk to me, they knew I was just having some fun with fashion. They knew that the next night, I might be there with my hair teased to high heavens, blue eyeshadow and a pink miniskirt. If you'd rather wear vintage clothes or all black or whatever, freaking WEAR THEM. Be yourself!!
"You are not your @#$%ing khakis." - Tyler Durden |
The thing with this whole thing is that I'm having a hard time explaining... I'm trying to figure out who I am. And I think I'm starting to. I really want to start dressing like how I have been the past two days.
I'm never going to give up listening to the music I like, though. But I'm not going to let it definite me anymore.