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I think this is one of those situations where the rho gam did not adequately explain the ramifications of accepting a bid, etc. Sometimes, in the spirit of "panhellenic love" Greek life spends a lot of time encouraging girls to go ahead and give every house a chance, etc and the rules are glossed over. And that is unfortunate.
OP - use this year to meet other sorority women, get involved, etc. I don't know what your campus is like regarding upperclassmen getting bids but don't let this disappointment get you down. Sounds like informal might work for you next year.
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