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The way I look at it, a fraternity/sorority is like a family. Do you like everyone in your family at all times? No. Do you get along with everyone all the time? No. There will be brothers/sisters that you're best friends with and others that you aren't as close with.
Personally, I only knew about 3 guys in my fraternity when I joined. During the colonization we all went to a retreat and did nothing but get to know each other. We left a lot closer and with a lot more respect for one another.
Try hanging out with sisters/other girls in your class outside of meetings/events/etc. Ask people to study with you, go to the dining commons, have a movie night, etc. so you get to know your potential sisters/class better. We are always challenging each other in my fraternity to get to know everyone and to maintain a level of mutual respect.
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ΔX - Founding Father, Massachusetts Chapter
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