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Originally Posted by APhiAnna
One thing to keep in mind: sometimes guys will NOT want to give a second bid to somebody who turned down a bid before. The mentality is that, "Oh, he didn't think we were good enough before so screw him." Just be prepared that if enough guys feel that way the second fraternity may not be a viable option. I know with my brother's fraternity they did that once to somebody because they felt insulted that they were considered the second choice.
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Seriously. Unless we were desperate for numbers, if someone rejected our initial bid and then came back next semester wanting one, unless he was some sort of amazing PNM (4.0, tons of extracurriculars, insane campus involvement), we wouldn't give him the time of day.