Quote:
Originally Posted by Ggirl617
I'm not looking for reasons to be unhappy I just don't deny that it exists. I WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING TO FORGET ALL THIS AND BE HAPPY WITH EYELINER. THAT IS WHY I AM HERE TRYING (sorry FSUZeta, I am not yelling this at you, I just want to let everyone know)
I will give inviting my friends an honest effort. Any tips on how to approach people to ask about it?
|
I know it's only been a week or so and you're still adjusting. It's just going to take time, as difficult as it is sometimes. You don't have to convince us of anything which is kind of what it feels like you're trying to do (again, much is probably being lost in translation). Everyone has had those "what if" moments. I know I had them plenty of times even during my junior and senior year. You just have to shake them off and tell yourself "For better or worse, this is how things ended up, and I'm going to make the best of it!"
The things you listed that are amazing about Eyeliner are Awesome! Keep focusing on those! Like gee_ess suggested, keep adding more to the list as you continue in your new member period.
As far as inviting friends - I think asking them to go get coffee or ice cream with some other pledge sisters is a good idea. Wear your bid day shirt or other letter shirts around campus. If your chapter has any upcoming open events (philanthropy, etc...) invite them to that.