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see those are all good , concrete things!! and this is the first you have mentioned them.

i can promise you that there are new members in every chapter anywhere, that are wondering "what if ?" or the proverbial "grass in always greener". i think that is human nature, but it seemed to be approaching obsessive in your posts. i am glad to see some positive things about eyeliner.

if your chapter has a house and serves meals, invite a friend over to share a meal. if not, try to arrange with some of your sisters to meet you and your friend in the cafeteria/food court for lunch, or at starbucks for a coffee. i would imagine that your vp recruitment will be holding some organized events, but you could email her to see.

does your chapter have a day where you all wear your letters or dress up and wear your badges? the chapter i advise does both those things, and on the letters day, they make an effort to sit as a group in the cafeteria-of course, they have girls coming and going as their class schedules dictate. that would be a good day to ask a friend to join you. if your chapter doesn't do this-maybe they would if you suggested it.