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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
ggirl, we are saying not to reveal your school or sorority in the event that someone from your school or worse still, your chapter, comes on greekchat, reads your thread and realizes who you are and how you really feel about your sorority.
it may be just something that is lost in the translation from you to the computer, but it sounds as if you are looking for reasons to be unhappy with your chapter and that you are not sure if you will continue your membership. it could be that i(we) have misinterpreted what you are trying to convey in written word, but if more than a few of us are interpreting your feelings in this way, then others might also-people who are from your chapter or your school. it could hurt you and it certainly would hurt your sorority sisters.
we can't make you love your sorority. that is something you are going to have to do on your own. your chapter has sent out an email inviting any of you who would like to, to bring a friend over to be considered for membership. this could be your opportunity to change the direction that you feel the sorority is headed in. instead of this being a burden, it could be a positive thing.your chapter is giving you and your pledge sisters(as well as the initiated members) a chance to make a decision that could change the way your chapter is perceived on campus, by allowing you to have a say by bringing a prospective member over for the sisters to meet. not many new members get a chance like this this early in their membership. it is a glass half full or half empty situation and i look at it as a half full one.
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No, I know, and I agree (about the revealing aspect).
I'm not looking for reasons to be unhappy I just don't deny that it exists. I WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING TO FORGET ALL THIS AND BE HAPPY WITH EYELINER. THAT IS WHY I AM HERE TRYING (sorry FSUZeta, I am not yelling this at you, I just want to let everyone know)
I will give inviting my friends an honest effort. Any tips on how to approach people to ask about it?