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Old 10-03-2009, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted by sadpnm View Post

The only bad thing was something that my friend did. She was invited back to the chapter that dropped me and apparently told them how much they had hurt me! She came back from the party and was like "you're gonna love me!" but I'm actually really embarrassed and hope that doesn't get around to the other chapters. According to her, she told them that a lot of PNMs think they're huge bitches for cutting me. I'm not sure if she said those exact words or if she just said it for storytelling purposes (I'm hoping the latter...) but I'm a little nervous about how it will affect me...

I'm off to recruitment now! I'll let you all know how it goes later!

First, at your friend's comment. While I can appreciate her loyalty to you, I hope she is not counting on being invited back to that chapter. Her statements raise a number of red flags, and I'm afraid she may well be cut by that particular chapter.

As to it getting back to other chapters - don't worry about it. During recruitment there is almost no communication between chapters themselves - I'd say none, but I'm only going by my experiences. Chapters have their hands full with their own business - while they are in communication with the panhellenic council , they don't have the time to talk directly to one another.
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