And this...
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Originally Posted by Secondpath
Anyway, top choice president told me that I couldn't be offered a bid simply because they had a lot of freshmen rush this year, and they wanted to stay a certain size and so they didn't take any upperclassmen, not just me.
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.. might not be the reason you weren't offered a bid. If there were other reasons why, the brothers won't tell you.
Don't get me wrong, this actually could be the reason, but there's also a chance that it was an "easy answer" to your wondering why you weren't invited to join.
This second fraternity actually wants you to be a member, but you're holding out for a group that didn't offer you a bid? To me, that sounds ridiculous, especially if it's only because their social calendar isn't as extensive as the other.